Article by Liisa Ogburn.
The picture doesn’t always tell the whole story
I recently ran into a neighbor at the Y whom I deeply respect and love. I’ve known her for fifteen years now and every Christmas she sends out easily the most creative card we receive.
I called out, “Great holiday card!”
She responded, “It’s all fake.”
There was a pause, then I said, “Whose isn’t?”
This exchange made me think of how often something similar happens when I sit down to work with a new client. I’m usually called by the daughter at a moment of crisis in which the conversation goes something like this, “We’re usually a family that has it all together, but Mom’s taken a fast downturn. We don’t have a plan. We’re embarrassed. We’re afraid. We’re not sleeping. Can you help us find her a bed by tomorrow?”
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About the Author:
Liisa Ogburn is at the heart of Aging Advisors NC, bringing a rich blend of personal experience and global perspective to elder care. Raised in North Carolina with deep roots in Finland, Liisa has a unique appreciation for diverse approaches to aging, shaped by her life across different cultures including Finland, Estonia, Germany, England, Japan, and Costa Rica.
Her path into elder care consulting was deeply personal. While juggling her role as a Duke University educator and caring for her father-in-law and three young children, Liisa started sharing her family’s journey through articles for The New York Times and later, over 300 posts for WRAL Raleigh on everything from handling loss to choosing the right elder care options.
A teacher at heart, Liisa thrives on empowering others with knowledge. She offers her expertise in presentations to various groups—from churches to professional firms—and writes extensively, reaching audiences far and wide. Her credentials include certifications in geriatric care and a special certification from Brown University to teach Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction, reinforcing her belief that calm minds make sound decisions.
